You've got Nhamashal all wrong. You have to actually go on dates a few times to see the real him. (Preferably all 5.) His parents forced him into lessons and classes to make him act more "noble." All he truly wanted was to be a poet, but that wasn't good enough for them. That's why he had that initial arrogant air, it was trained into him, not🤡 who he is at his core. Once you get to know him and nudge him in the right direction, he readily works on himself and gets really humble and sweet. Then he says he is all flaws and not good enough for you.